Tuesday, May 27, 2008

Four new actions - revisited

  • weight lifting (so I'm toned)
    • pain
      • boredom
      • have to get up early
      • can't chill at end of day if I go to gym
    • pleasure of not doing
      • get to sleep in
      • get to chill at end day
    • pleasure if I do it
      • toned body
      • sense of well being
      • feeling in control
      • feeling like I can follow through
      • clears my head and is stress reliever
      • would get to eat more as will be burning more
      • sense of accomplishment
  • calling abo and isha
    • pain
      • dealing with why didn't call before
      • dealing with having to do it regularly
      • might ask me to do something I don't want to do
      • not sure I want them in my life
    • pleasure of not doing
      • get to ignore it
      • not dealing with them and probable guilt trip
    • pleasure
      • i know they would be so happy if I did call
      • getting rid of guilt
      • knowing I'm helping them
      • being a responsible attentive offspring / niece
  • cooking vegetables in more interesting ways for my kids
    • pain
      • don't know how and hate to confront that
      • kids might not eat it - rejection
      • time it takes to do
      • dealing with DH when have to throw it out
      • might turn out yucky
    • pleasure of not doing
      • saving time - chilling out at end of day
    • pleasure
      • introducing kids to good cooking
      • having my family eat healthy foods
      • having variety in our meals
      • adding another skill to my repertoire
      • adding to my quest for superwoman status
  • introducing scrum/agile properly to my team
    • pain
      • resistance of team
      • getting yelled at by boss
      • might be rejected
      • might be viewed as failure
    • pleasure of not doing
      • no rejections
      • no extra effort
    • pleasure
      • a team running like clock work
      • knowing I have helped make it happen
      • teaching new ways of dealing with our issues and succeeding
      • being able to implement my dreams
      • following through
      • feeling powerful and action oriented

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